wisdoms | aiman

WISDOMS (how to make this old timey?)

No sense flaking out or crying like a baby; but, if you do, recover as quick as you can, put in place what you can not to do it again.
Consult people and sources of empathy, care, love, knowledge, and wisdom.

No sense falling head over heels. Fulfillment won’t originate from outside like that. Fulfillment is a matter of changing what is in the heart and focusing on effort and actual outcomes.
That means avoiding obsessing or longing for anything that wasn’t, isn’t, and can’t be. That’s in the mind, body, family, friends, civic life, economics & material–ex eo omnes.
HOWEVER: Giving up on a dream ought not to be too easy.
& HOWEVER: Real love, where one person is high up in another person's priorities . . . that sort of care is valuable, deserves respect, and is quite wonderful when mutual between folks!

Generally, I think it’s better to do what you love than to do what makes the most money. If a job is enjoyable and fulfilling, that is a tremendous value that reverberates throughout all the other aspects of life.
HOWEVER: That doesn’t mean a person should possibly or idly submit to sub-par treatment or pay just to do what they’re good at or enjoy. That’s especially when their work is something that clearly benefits society–not to demean any labor.